There is a quote says that every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad... is it true?
In my mine, one of the challenges of new era generation is that I have access to lifestyle models and opportunities all over the world. I’ve got an abundance of choices available to me, and this can lead to being overwhelmed and a habit of questioning whatever I have and wondering whether the grass is greener on the other side. And of course I still have social pressure from my families and peers who place their expectations on me. I’m dealing with more opportunities and demands than ever before - it’s no wonder I get a little unsure of what I want!
Idea of doing what I love is of no use to me, if I’m unsure what I want and love. And nobody else can tell me what I love - the whole point of doing what I love is that I’m doing what I love, rather than the things other people tell me should love. But while I can’t learn what I love from other people, I can learn how to meet my true self and discover what I love for myself. There are lots of ways to discover what I love, and one of the most unexpected routes to discovering what I love is through my fear in past.
Next question: How to face it?
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